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Wedding Night: Kya First Night Ko Sex Karna Sunnat Hai?

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coolzeeshe Group: Members  Joined: 25th Jun, 2008  Topic: 39  Post: 123  Age:  32  
Posted on:8th Aug 2008, 11:03pm
 

Wedding Night: Kya First Night Ko Sex Karna Sunnat Hai?

 salam to all

main ne suna hai k first night sex karna sunnat hai kiya first night wedding ki karna sunnat hai or main ne yeh bhi bohat se logon se suna ahi k is k bagher valima nahi hota agar sunnat hai to kisi k pass koi refrence to plz give me and clear my concept

thanx

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Posted on:8th Aug 2008, 12:20pm
 

Reply

jin logon sey ap ney yey sunaa hey wo is k bary mein kai keytey hen ap ney un sey yey sawal kio nhi pochaaaaa , unhii sey sawal kareen takey wo aap ka concept clear kar deen
coolzeeshe Group: Members  Joined: 25th Jun, 2008  Topic: 39  Post: 123  Age:  32  
Posted on:9th Aug 2008, 5:20am
 

sorry

sorry for multipal topic bhai woh kehte hai bus hai ap log plz clear karden k yeh sahi hai ya nahi where is seemi, sweeti sis and zeb bhia plz help bhai kyon k mere sath to badi prob hai meri barat bhi khi se lhr jaye gi yeh to panga hojaye ga bhia
saahilbhai Group: Members  Joined: 31st Oct, 2007  Topic: 17  Post: 971  Age:  29  
Posted on:9th Aug 2008, 6:31am
 

cool zeeshe

bhai baat yeh hai k agar app first night sex karte ho to agle din valima khilana sunnat hai dost rishte daar aur dosre afraad ko.

agar app first night sex nahi karte 4 ya 5 din baad karte ho to app ko agle din sab ko khilao yeh sunnat hai mein ne yeh kahi parha tha plz members is ka jawab dein am i right or wrong

coolzeeshe Group: Members  Joined: 25th Jun, 2008  Topic: 39  Post: 123  Age:  32  
Posted on:9th Aug 2008, 8:10am
 

hello

 

kidhar hai aj sab k sab jawab hi nahi aa raha kisi ka

jtm Group: Members  Joined: 02nd Aug, 2008  Topic: 13  Post: 311  Age:  50  
Posted on:9th Aug 2008, 8:58am
 

first nigth sex

merey khyal sey aap key pheley sawal ka bilkul sahi jawab to koi bhi nahin deh sakta i dont think iss thra kei koi hadish ya waqia kahin likha ho (wallah u alam) haan doosra sawal ka ja mill sakta hay
coolzeeshe Group: Members  Joined: 25th Jun, 2008  Topic: 39  Post: 123  Age:  32  
Posted on:11th Aug 2008, 8:12am
 

Salam here New ?

 

mera sawal yeh hai k ager ladki ko esthima ho to kiya hone wale baby pe is ka asar padta ahi or kiya during forplay ya intercource ka doran bhi koi problem hosakti hai kiya esthima ka koi complete ilaj hai k yeh khatam hojye plz awnser my ?s

thanx

shizi Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2008  Topic: 13  Post: 288  Age:  28  
Posted on:11th Aug 2008, 10:54am
 

RE

Kisi hadees say aise bat sabit nae hai... aur sunnat b nahe hai mai nay aj tak aise koi bat nahe suni k first night its necessary...
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13607  Age:  33  
Posted on:17th Oct 2008, 9:09am
 

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Babby is blocked.if you again n again sending your e mail adresse..you will be blocked also.
waseem08 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Apr, 2009  Topic: 13  Post: 1304  Age:  32  
Posted on:29th Oct 2009, 6:01pm
 

coolzeeshe bhai apke dono swaloon ka jwaabat salaam

main ne suna hai k first night sex karna sunnat hai kiya first night wedding ki karna sunnat hai

ans.sunnat ye hy k ap jb bv ko apne me ghul mila lo(yani uss ki jhijhak khatam krdo) uss wqtt sunnat hy ab agr ye kaam pheli raat ko ho saka to pheli raat ko hi sunnat hy.

or main ne yeh bhi bohat se logon se suna ahi k is k bagher valima nahi hota agar sunnat hai to kisi k pass koi refrence to plz give me and clear my concept

ans.g han hambistaree k bad hi walima sunnat hota hy begeir hambistaree k walima ny hy agr kia to sunnat na hoi.

mera sawal yeh hai k ager ladki ko esthima ho to kiya hone wale baby pe is ka asar padta ahi

ans.g ny aesa kuch ny hy.

or kiya during forplay ya intercource ka doran bhi koi problem hosakti hai 

ans.ny ho sakti koi problem iss se koi talluk ny hy.

kiya esthima ka koi complete ilaj hai k yeh khatam hojye

ans.haan bilkul hy.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7734  Age:  55  
Posted on:30th Oct 2009, 9:59am
 

waseem bro

yeh apnay ajeeb baat batlaayee k hambistari k baad hi valima karna sunnat hai... please give sum reference from sahi ahaadees etc.

meray khayaal say to rukhsati k baad miyaaN biwi maiN takhlia ho jaanay k baad valima kia jasakta hai... khaah hum bistari howi ho yaa nah ho... jaisay rukhsati + takhlia k baad agar husband say talaaq hojaa.ay /husband wafaat paa jaa.ay to IDDAT laazmi hai khaah ham.bistari howi ho yaa nah howi ho... wazah ho beghair rukhsati ki soorat maiN mutleqah /bewah ki koi iddat nahi

 

rafaz Group: Members  Joined: 14th Mar, 2007  Topic: 20  Post: 941  Age:   
Posted on:30th Oct 2009, 1:45pm
 

TO WASEEM 08

Waseem saheb asey koi bat nahee ha ager humbistari nahee bhee hoowe ha tub bhee valima khila saktey heen this is not the issue ulmas ka is per etifaq ha k humbistari na bhee phir bhee valima ho jata ha

humbistari sirif us waqt zaroori ha jeb koi larki talaq hooney k bad doosri shadi karey aur jeb tak us ka shoer humbistari na karey aur phir us ka shoer khud apni marzi say us ko talaq dey to yee halala jaiz ho ga phir wo aurat apney phelay husband say shadi ker sakti ha
Doctor K K Group: Members  Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009  Topic: 25  Post: 1969  Age:  37  
Posted on:30th Oct 2009, 1:59pm
 

Re: Wedding Night: Kya First Night Ko Sex Karna Sunnat Hai?

Yes! Valima feast doesn't require Love making activity. It is a tradition in the pleasure that a new couple has started a new life by joining together. Married life doesn't mean to have sex only.
waseem08 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Apr, 2009  Topic: 13  Post: 1304  Age:  32  
Posted on:30th Oct 2009, 7:20pm
 

reply answers

myrizvi bhai:

yeh apnay ajeeb baat batlaayee k hambistari k baad hi valima karna sunnat hai... please give sum reference from sahi ahaadees etc.

ans.jesa apka hukum hazire khidmat hy:

hadess:01,sahee bukharee,muslim me anas radiyallaho anho se mrwi hy k rasooloollah sallallahoalyhiwasllam ne abdulrehman bin aaof radiyaallahoanho pr zrdi ka asr dekha(yani kholooque ka rang inn k badan yaa kaproon pr lagaa howa dekha)frmaya ye kia hy(yani mrdd k badan pr iss rang ko na hona chahiye ye q kr lagaa)arzz ki mene ek aurat se nikah kia hy(iss k badan se ye zrdii choot kr lag gyy)frmayaa ALLAH TAALAA tumhare liye mubarak kare tum walima karo agrche ek bakaree se yaa ek hi bakaree se.

masaile shareeaa:01,dawate walima sunnat hy walima ye hy k shab zfaaf ki subaah ko apne dost,aahbaab,aaziz o aaqarab or muhalle k logoo ki hasbe istitaaat ziyaaftt kare or iss k liye janwer zibaah krna or khana tyaar karana jaiz hy or jo loog bulayen jyen inko jana chahiye k inn ka jana iss k liye musarrat ka bais hogaa walima me jis shakhs ko bolaya jay iss ko jana sunnat hy yaa wajib hy oulama k dono quool hen bazahir ye maloom hota hy k ejabat sunnate moukada hy walima k swaa dosri dawatoon me b jana afzal hy or ye shaks agr roza daar na hoto khana afzal hy k aapne muslim bhai ki khushi me shirkat or iss ka dil khush krna hy or roza daar ho jab b jay or sahibe khana k liye dua kare or walima k swaa dosri dawatoon k b yehi hukum hy k roza daar na hoto khaye warna iss k liye dua kare.(aalam giree,rudd al muhtaar)

masaile shareeaa:02,dawate walima srff phele din hy yaa iss k bad dosre din b yani do hi din tak ye dawaat ho sakti hy iss k bad walima or shadi khatam.(aalamgiree)

meray khayaal say to rukhsati k baad miyaaN biwi maiN takhlia ho jaanay k baad valima kia jasakta hai...

ans.haan kia ja sakta hy pr oulama ka ikhtalaaf hy baaz k nazdeek sunnat hogayii to baaz k nazdeek sunnat na hoi.

khaah hum bistari howi ho yaa nah ho...

ans.baaz kheten hen k hambisteri k bad sunnat hy to baaz k nazdeek jo apne kaha hy.

jaisay rukhsati + takhlia k baad agar husband say talaaq hojaa.ay /husband wafaat paa jaa.ay to IDDAT laazmi hai khaah ham.bistari howi ho yaa nah howi ho...

ans.g haan bilkul sai hy.

wazah ho beghair rukhsati ki soorat maiN mutleqah /bewah ki koi iddat nahi

ans.g haan bilkul sai hy.

rafaz bhai:

Waseem saheb asey koi bat nahee ha ager humbistari nahee bhee hoowe ha tub bhee valima khila saktey heen this is not the issue ulmas ka is per etifaq ha k humbistari na bhee phir bhee valima ho jata ha

ans.bhai oulama ka ikhtalaaf dono batoon pr hy or waseem08 to shabe zafaaf k bad hi walima ko sunnat janta hy.

humbistari sirif us waqt zaroori ha jeb koi larki talaq hooney k bad doosri shadi karey aur jeb tak us ka shoer humbistari na karey aur phir us ka shoer khud apni marzi say us ko talaq dey to yee halala jaiz ho ga phir wo aurat apney phelay husband say shadi ker sakti ha

ans.g haan bilkul sai hy.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7734  Age:  55  
Posted on:31st Oct 2009, 2:06am
 

waseem bhai say 2 sawaal

jazak Allah for detail reply...

but apki pesh kardah hadees aur hawala jaat say sirf yeh SABIT hota hai k shabay-zafaaf ki subah /yaa aglay roz valima karna sunnat hai... iss par to sab ka hi ittefaaq hai.

magar sawaal yeh hai k agar "sohaag-raat" ko kissi wajah say amlay mobaasherat nah hosaki ho to kia iss wajah say aglay roz walimaa NAHEE kia jasakta, jaisa k awaam maiN mash'hoor hai... kuch to yahaaN tak kahtay haiN k aisaa valimaa khana hi jaiz nahi...lahaul wala quwwat....

ap aisay ulemaa (jo mobaasherat k beghair valima k 'qaail nahi' yaa aisay valimaa ko "sunnat par mabni" tasleem nahi kartay) onka specific hawala dijyeh, agar koi ho to... thanx

waseem08 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Apr, 2009  Topic: 13  Post: 1304  Age:  32  
Posted on:31st Oct 2009, 6:44pm
 

rizvi bhai thanks

but apki pesh kardah hadees aur hawala jaat say sirf yeh SABIT hota hai k shabay-zafaaf ki subah /yaa aglay roz valima karna sunnat hai... iss par to sab ka hi ittefaaq hai.

ans.g han jo aahadees shareefa pesh ki gy hy ussi se baz oulama me ittefaaque hy baqui bhut c aahadees hy jin se apki baat b sabit hoti hy jesa k waseem08 ne phele bata dia tha.

 

magar sawaal yeh hai k agar "sohaag-raat" ko kissi wajah say amlay mobaasherat nah hosaki ho to kia iss wajah say aglay roz walimaa NAHEE kia jasakta,

ans.bilkul manaya ja sakta hy pr jesa k oulama ka ikhtalaaf hy uss bina pr baz k nazdeek sunnat or baz k nazdeek khilafe sunnat hy or waseem08 ka b ittefaaque ye hi hy k khilaafe sunnat hy bageir hambister howe.

jaisa k awaam maiN mash'hoor hai... kuch to yahaaN tak kahtay haiN k aisaa valimaa khana hi jaiz nahi...lahaul wala quwwat....

ans.rizvi bhai awaam ki baat mat karen kia ap ny jante k awaam ne kia kia tashole pheke howe hen to awaam ko to chore jo aesa kheten hen bila shuba jahil hy.

ap aisay ulemaa (jo mobaasherat k beghair valima k 'qaail nahi' yaa aisay valimaa ko "sunnat par mabni" tasleem nahi kartay) onka specific hawala dijyeh, agar koi ho to... thanx

ans.bhai jo hadees shareefa pesh ki hy usse hi baaz oulama k nazdeek shabbe zafaaf k bad hi walima sunnat hy begeir shabbe zafaaf k sunnat ny hy.

or bhut c aahadeesa sharefa hy jinse apki baat sabit hoti hy jesa k waseem08 ne

 phele hi bata dia tha abb oulama ka ikhtalaaf b awaam mun naas k liye rehmat hy to agr ap ye oulama pr ittefaaque krte ho k begeir mubashirat k walima sunnat hy to thik hy pr agr koi jese k waseem08 inn oulama pr ittefaaque krta hy jesa k bataya hy to it is not a problem bhai aapne d gy aahadees shareefa goor se read ki hy ussme khaas kr jis rang ka zkr hy wo iss ko sabit krta hy k mubashirat k bad walima sunnat hy pr walima mubashirat k begeir b sunnat hy iss pr b bhut c aahadees shareefa hy pr apna ittefaaqu to ussi pr hy.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7734  Age:  55  
Posted on:1st Nov 2009, 3:20am
 

ok thanx waseem bhai

it's true k ulemaa.e.haq k ikhtelaaf maiN awaam un naas k liyeh rahmat hai. aur awaam jiss kissi bhi group k ulemaa.e.haq ki pairwee karengay, insha Allah kaamyaab hongay.

taham apnay abhi tak yeh nahi batlayaa k woh kaunsay ulemaa.e.haq hain jo iss baat k qaail hain k .... mubaasherat k beghair valima karnaa sunnat NAHI hai .... balkay mobaasherat k baad hi valimah karna sunnat hai.....

meri yaa apki roy ki deen main koi hasiyat nahi...jab tak k hamari roy ko quran, hadees yaa aj.maa.e.ummat say koi SANAD nah mil jaa.ay.... as u know k nikaah k baad valimah karna afzal /sunnat hai...koi farz yaa wajib nahi k iskay beghair nikaah ki takmeel hi nah ho...apki pesh kardah hadees main bhi aap sallallaho alaihay wassallam nay nikaah karnay walay ko valima karnay ki talqeen ki thee........ yeh nahi wazahat ki yaa kissi ko yeh 'hedayat' nahi ki k jab tak tum mobaasherat nah karlo, valimaah NAH karo.

main sirf apni info k liyeh yeh janna chaahtaa houn k:

1. kab aur kahaaN Nabi kareem sallallaho alihay wasallam nay kissi say yeh kahaa k ...jab tak mobaasherat nah karlo, valimah nah karo.

2. kiss aalimay deen nay aur kahaaN yeh likha k .... mobaasherat kiyeh beghair valimah karnaa sunnat nahi hai.

brother agar apkay pass above 2-points ka wazah aur 2 Tok jawaab maujood hai to pesh kijyeh. aur agar nahi hai to bay.shak aap apna yeh aqeedah rakhiyeh, magar iss aqeedah ka parchaar kartay howay ehteyaat kijyeh k Nabi Kareem sallallaho alihay wasallam ki waeed hai k jisnay meri taraf aisee baat mansoob ki jo main nay nahi ki to....

zaroori nahi k ap meri baat par jawaaban zaroor kuch likhain... haaN agar apko above 2 points k mukhtaser aur 2 Tok jawaab maloom ho to zaroor likhye...warnah koi baat nahi. wassalam

waseem08 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Apr, 2009  Topic: 13  Post: 1304  Age:  32  
Posted on:1st Nov 2009, 10:12am
 

apke swalon k jwab above reply me de chuka hon

wasalaam warahmaa.
rafaz Group: Members  Joined: 14th Mar, 2007  Topic: 20  Post: 941  Age:   
Posted on:2nd Nov 2009, 5:29am
 

MY RIZVI

You have very clear opinion weather valima is valid or not and your question is very right to mr waseem give the two answer

But i think mr waseem has not very clear answer on this issue becz MUHAMMED(peace be upon him ) nay kisi jaga per yee nahee kaha hak jeb tak intercourse na ker loo valima nahee karo ,shadi k bad valima kernay ko kaha ha

Mr Waseem plz clear your mind on this issue ulmas ka is pay ittefaq ha k valima k lyee intercourse kerna zaroori nahee ha
waseem08 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Apr, 2009  Topic: 13  Post: 1304  Age:  32  
Posted on:2nd Nov 2009, 11:21pm
 

rafaz thank you

Mr Waseem plz clear your mind on this issue ulmas ka is pay ittefaq ha k valima k lyee intercourse kerna zaroori nahee ha

ans.yes i know k oulama ka ittefaque hy.

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