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Husband Wife Relation: What Should Be The Reaction In Case Of Extra-Marital Affairs?

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faisee Group: Active Members  Joined: 13th Feb, 2007  Topic: 78  Post: 773  Age:  35  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2007, 2:59am

loyality with husband

Members, i have read a post here and question comes up...if a husband knows that his wife has illegal sexual relation with her boyfrd...what should be his reaction...and if wife ask for forgiveness..what should he do...also why in our society these type of things happen?? This question may give a guidelines to both husband and wifes to avoid these situations...thanks
justSalman Group: Members  Joined: 16th Apr, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 174  Age:  34  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2007, 1:45pm

re:loyality with husband

dear brother it is happeing in our society but wife dont have  illegal sexual relation with others much like husbands has too much also the main factor for wifes to have illegal sexual relation is i think lack of sex education as husband cant satisfy them and they try to find another who can satisfy them
Kali Zuban Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 30  Post: 1790  Age:  33  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2007, 8:54pm

re: faisee

aik bivi ki mojoodgi mai kisi doosri ghair aurton se taluqat ke bad agar husband apni wafe se mafi mange tu wife ko kia karna chahia. bilkul yahi jawab hai is sawal ka.
Bewaqoof Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 264  Post: 4719  Age:  43  
Posted on:18th Jan 2008, 8:03am

re: loyality with husband

Faisee ne aik aham post kia tha. jis ke ooper kuch ziadah reply nahi mila. mera khial hai keh logo ki samajh mai faisee ka sawal nahi aaya. mai faisee ke sawal ko dialogue ki soorat mai likh raha hoo. takeh aap logo ki samajh mai yeh sawal aasake aur aap log proper jawab de sake.

shohar: mera khial hai keh tum virgin nahi ho.

Bivi: nahi aap ko kis ne kaha?

Shohar: mujhe maloom hai tumhara os (name) se friendship thi aur tum ne os ke saath illegal sex bhi kia hai.

Bivi: nahi sirf jaan pehchan hai, iss se ziadah kuch nahi.

Shohar: lekin tumhare ex boyfriend ne khood hi yeh baat batai hai.

Bivi: woh aisa nahi keh sakta. os ne tu mujhe dhoka dia hai.

Shohar: os ne bhi yahi kaha hai keh os ne tumhare saath just for enjoyment dosti ki thi. aur tumhare saath sab kuch kia hai jo aik mia bivi aik doosre ke saath kerte hai.

Bivi: aap mujhe maaf ker de, mai samajh rahi thi keh woh mujh se shaadi kare ga, agar mujhe yaqeen hota keh woh mujhe dhoka de raha hai tu mai kabhi bhi etni bari ghalti nahi kerti.

Shohar: ...........................................................

members se request hai keh woh batai keh aisi soorat mai shohar ka kia jawab hona chahiye.

nikama Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2007  Topic: 47  Post: 1807  Age:  39  
Posted on:18th Jan 2008, 8:57pm


Maaf kerna aur kisee ko bhee dosra moqa daina buhat afzal hai.

its good to forgive & vise versa

wxyz Group: Members  Joined: 13th Oct, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 29  Age:  38  
Posted on:18th Jan 2008, 10:29pm


if she is really ashamed off that act and u think that she will be a pious onwards then forgiving is better. Also u can forgive her for the sake of children, if u think that they will be spoiled after divorce.

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  37  
Posted on:21st Jan 2008, 8:16am


very wise reply by nikama and wxyz...

im agreed to their answers... comments

Pehchan Group: Members  Joined: 27th Nov, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 14  Age:  48  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 7:18am

Good Topic

I really liked the Bewaqoofs dialog......(he is creative I dont know why he calls himself bewaqoof)

It is very hard for husband to forgive, even if he forgives he still will be burning in that fire all the time.

Now look at another sonerio, In Islam we need four witness to prove such know it is hard to get four there is a really big reason behind it. Islam does not want some one to be guilty and be punished infact it says if you do something wrong than just hide it , and go for Toba Istagfar and tell any body at all otherwise those people will be witness on judgement day and you may get punishment on that day.

So the life partners should not discuss or ask each other about these things.If a husband think that his wife is guilty than he should ask himself if he has four witnesses  if the answer is NO than be Glad and say loudly that my wife is not guilty and give her all due repect and love without any doubt.

there is a lot more to write here but I dont have enough time.I hope you got my point.

God bless you all

fairy Group: Members  Joined: 16th Feb, 2008  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  38  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 11:11pm

about virginty?

Salam Plz tell if wife never told her husband abt his relations b4 marriage than how husband will judge about her caracter

fairy Group: Members  Joined: 16th Feb, 2008  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  38  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 11:15pm

about virgin

Plz PLz kindly reply me if a girl is not virgin and someone rape her only 1 time and she never told anyone about this what should she do on her weding night told her husband or hide it?
sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  42  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 12:13pm


mera khayal ye hai ke agar ladki  ki apne hone wale husband se achi understanding hai,aur wo ek dusre se apni problem share karte hain aur understand bhi karte hain to ladki ko bata dena chahye,kyunke rape ki surat me ladki ke chirdar pe shak nahi karna chahye.

lekin otherwise,na hi bataen to behtar hai.....kyunke is se ek ye nuksan ho sakta hai ke apka husband apko usi waqt chod sakta hai, aur dusri taraf socha jaye to husband se chupana nahi chahye,islye ye kahungi ke forna shadi ki rat ko nahi batana chahye,balke kuch arse bad jab apas me understanding ho jaye....

josh Group: Members  Joined: 30th Jul, 2007  Topic: 47  Post: 2282  Age:  41  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 1:36pm

kaisa laga mera dialogue ..........

bewakoof , aisi soorat mai maaf hi karna chahiye ,, aur usay ye kehna chahiye k ................ is baar mai tumhe maaf karta hon lekin agar ainda tumnay koi galat kaam kia to mai tumhe maaf nai kar sakonga , phir tumhara rasta alag aur mera alag..... aur muje umeed hai tum mera trust break nahi karogi....

pinky7861 Group: Members  Joined: 06th Oct, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 1348  Age:   
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 5:50pm


    No and a BIG no.  Even if ur husband is an angel, never ever try to tell him about this.  Jab allah nay aisi lerki ki perda poshi ker di hay aur ussay zaleel honay say bacha lia hay tu phir yah intihai baywaqoofi hay kay wo lerki kisi ko bhi even kay apnay husband ko bhi iss kay barray main batay.  Husband farishta nahi hota, aur kabhi na kabhi zindgi main aisa moqa aa hi jata hay jab kay aap kay paoun dho dho ker pinay wala shoher bhi aap ko aisi baat per tanna day sakta hay, yah ainda kay liay aap ki zaat kay baaray main koi shak zahen main bitha sakta hay.

    Waisay ager lerki ko yah khoaf ho kay uss ka shoher iss baat ko hood hi jaan lay ga tu aisa namimkin hay.  Hymen kisi ki bhi shadi say pahlay phat sakti hay, aur iss kay liay sex kernay ki koi qaid nahi hay.  Lahaza iss baat ka der nahi hona chahyay.  Allah say bas dua kerlo kay wo aap kay husband ko kisi tara kay fazool shak main janay say bachay aur bas.  Waisay bhi sex kernay kay baad ager kafi arsa tak dobara sex na kia jay tu vagina shrink ho jati hay.  iss liay maira mashwera yahi hay kay husband ko aisi baat na batai jay jab kay allah nay hood hi iss baat ki perda poshi fermaa di hay.


Pehchan Group: Members  Joined: 27th Nov, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 14  Age:  48  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 7:31pm

Hide it please

In my personal experience a girl should never tell her husband about her previous relationships at all, full stop here.

In real life you will hardly find a person who is a real Man(Mard).I will call a man real man only if he can sacrifice his wishes, he can control his lust,emotions,anger and he really take care of other people and has a soft heart.

Now look at the realty, we men are mostly ordinary men, we can not tolerate wife's mistakes and rather we are proud on our mistakes and tell other people that what I was doing when I was in stupoid teenage and even later on.and our women are really great they listen, tolerate and forgive their men.

There is no way some one can prove virginity.Even with todays latest technology no one can prove it with 100% guarantee.

So you see even God and nature is in favour to hide these things and dont tell any body.these are between you and your God, and Allah is the most merciful who will forgive and no one will ever know in the judgement day .

astarpk Group: Members  Joined: 26th Nov, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 35  Age:  37  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 7:47pm

social behavior

Agar biwi nay kiya hai aisa tou ussay Ulta latka day, Foran divorce day kar alag kar day.... etc etc.

Agar shohr nay iss tarah kiya, aur/ya still iss tarah karta hai, tou bivi still Guzara karay. Shor macha kar kiya ukhar lay ghi...apna ghar hi barbaad karay ghi...Hahahaha.

Yeh hai humari society ka common attitude.... kyun koi aitraz?

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  42  
Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 8:00pm


you are right,maine bhi fairy ko yehi kaha hai ke behtri isi me hai ke na bataen.aur agar khuda ne pardah dal dia hai to yaqeenan wo age bhi pardah dalega..lekin agar soorat-ehal aisi hai ke kuch logon is bat ka malum hai to phir husband ko bhi pata chal sakta hai.
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  37  
Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 6:10am


im 100000000% agreed with Pehchan & Pinky...very wise reply bi them

chahey kuch bhi ho jaye...aye bat husband to kia...balkey kisi ko bhi nahi batani chahiye....kisi ko bhi naiiiiiiiiiiii


fairy Group: Members  Joined: 16th Feb, 2008  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  38  
Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 8:51am


Thanx all of you thanks alot to help me actually ya bat pachaly 3 sall se mujy pershan krti ti or yah to mary mind ma ni ta ka jub Allah pak ne meri iis baat pa parda dala ha to ma ku worry hu but ap logo ne mujy iss ka ahsas dilya thanks alot all of you or yah bat sirf meri ak close fr ko pta ti or ab ap logo ko to now i desided to chapter close Inshallah ap logo ki duaye huye to Allah pak mudad kary gay take care all of u and this fouram
BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  31  
Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 10:50am

Man Dominating Soceity

Yah Man Dominating Society hai... Mard ko 100 qatal maaf magar aur agar kisi ko 1 nakhun bhi mare gee tou uss ko Saza milaey gee... yahi iss society ka qanoon hai...!

Agreed to all... Nothing left to say.
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