My friend who has got married recently complains that his wife has never put off her cloths completely in front of him. Still the same condition is there that she refused to do it at the time of intercourse even in the full darkness. He is my close friend and I am his best partner. I am astonished and unable to understand such type of behavior adopted by his wife. My friend's all inductions are going to be wasted even with out any rationalization. I want to know about the reason for her hesitation? Would she have any scar on her body that she wants to hide?
Your friend should be open-hearted enough so that he would not be disheartened at this earlier stage of marriage with the things of minor importance. His wife started to live with him recently, then how does he would expect that she will do all the things according to his will. It could be possible that she would have any scar over her body, however; even in this condition she wouldn't have any hesitation or reason to put off her cloths in the darkness. Suppose in case, if she possess any scar over her body then advice your friend that he would take her in his confidence and make her realized that due to this scar, her personality and beauty would not be affected. Also due to this there will be no change in the behavior of husband. Modesty could be the second reason why she is not putting off her full cloths? The elements of modesty present in our girls and the childhood tough training that she gets at her home prevents her to become full nude in front of her husband, and he is the same person with whom she will spend her whole life and will give birth to his children as well.
It could be possible that her behavior looks like foolish, however; this is absolutely not unusual at the earlier stage of marriage.
With the sense of security and continued close relationship, the modesty would be departed.